The Man’s Guide To Emotional Minimalism

To be mentally strong and healthy a player must practice emotional minimalism. He should let go of the pain, anger, and frustration that some women can cause. The man who fails to do this, the one who can’t be an emotional rock? He runs the risk of rapid player burnout. And possibly even hurting his own mental health. Are… [Read More]

A Threesome Attempt Ends In Disaster

I’ve been dating two girls for a while now. Leticia, my 25-year-old, has been my girlfriend for two years. And Ara, my 19-year-old, who’s been with me for 7 months. Now both girls know about each other. But they’d never met. Of course I’d toyed with the fantasy… What would happen if I introduced these… [Read More]

The Manosphere Is Hydra

the manosphere is hydra

An influential but now-defunct blogger once compared the Manosphere to a fortress. He thought the central stronghold of the fort, AKA ‘the Citadel,’ was Chateau Heartiste. And he felt that Heartiste must be defended at all costs, otherwise the Manosphere would be lost. Now this idea is thought-provoking. But fundamentally wrong. Sure Heartiste is important. For many men, myself included, his original… [Read More]

A Troublemaker’s Guide To Cracking OKCupid

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I’m an online dating veteran – I’ve been doing it for years. OKCupid has always been my go-to. It’s my primary source of pussy. So it’s easy for a guy like me to get arrogant, and assume I’ve got nothing left to learn about the site. But things change. And online dating is much more challenging these… [Read More]

How To Go On 100 First Dates

Attractive girl in a bikini

Back in 2013 I wrote about going on 50 first dates. Well I’ve gone on a few more since then. Yup, I’ve been on 112 first dates since September 2011. And that’s just first dates. If you add second and third dates, the number is around 150. So how did I do? Here are my stats: Total First… [Read More]

Rest In Peace My Friend

ari the cat eulogy

When my sister brought you home from the pound I was angry. She hadn’t asked permission. So I was real close to making her take you back. But then I held you for the first time. You were a tiny orange fur-ball and fit perfectly into the palm of my hand. And that was it… [Read More]

How To Smash Her G-Spot

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Most guys learn about the clitoris early on. It’s small, but obvious. You can see it, diddle it with your finger, flick it with your tongue, or rub it with your dick. The Gräfenberg Spot, aka the G-spot, is much more esoteric. It’s like Bigfoot or space aliens. Ruminated, debated, existence doubted. Is it even… [Read More]

23 Badass Fiction Books Every Man Should Read

Portrait of a handsome muscular ancient warrior with a sword.

My reading habit started back when I was a kid. See in those days my parents didn’t have a television. Sure they could afford it. They just chose to go without. The internet didn’t exist yet. And video games were still in infancy. Which meant I had two main choices: Play outside with my friends… [Read More]

Is The Red Pill A Philosophy Of Hate?

Love pills

I usually avoid acknowledging blue pillers who hate the red pill (TRP). Debating fools is a waste of energy – they’re mostly best ignored. But “red pill” IS part of my brand name. As well as the philosophy I’ve chosen to live by. So today I’ll be drawing sword, donning armor, and doing some white… [Read More]

How To Feed Your Girlfriend The Red Pill

Alice in wonderland

It was a lazy Sunday afternoon. My girlfriend was on her laptop, lounging on the couch at my place. She was talking about a dating blog she’d found – she knew the author. So I looked at it. Garbage. Typical retrograde blue pill advice. My writer’s pride got the best of me. I just couldn’t… [Read More]

How To Build Your First Harem

van bree harem

harem (noun): a group of women associated with one man – Merriam-Webster Building your very first harem seems like a hard task. A harem is so out there, so different from familiar traditional monogamy, that it’s almost like a fantasy. But modern harems are real. And for introverted men like me, harems are an ideal… [Read More]